Narrator: “Once upon a time, in a faraway land, a young prince lived in a shining castle. Although he had everything his heart desired, the prince was spoiled, selfish, and unkind. But then, one winter's night, an old beggar woman came to the castle and offered him a single rose in return for shelter from the bitter cold. Repulsed by her haggard appearance, the prince sneered at the gift and turned the old woman away. But she warned him not to be deceived by appearances, for beauty is found within. And when he dismissed her again, the old woman's ugliness melted away to reveal a beautiful enchantress. The prince tried to apologize, but it was too late, for she had seen that there was no love in his heart. And as punishment, she transformed him into a hideous beast and placed a powerful spell on the castle and all who lived there. Ashamed of his monstrous form, the beast concealed himself inside his castle, with a magic mirror as his only window to the outside world. The rose she had offered was truly an enchanted rose, which would bloom until his 21st year. If he could learn to love another, and earn her love in return by the time the last petal fell, then the spell would be broken. If not, he would be doomed to remain a beast for all time. As the years passed, he fell into despair and lost all hope. For who could ever learn to love a beast?” (Beauty and the Beast)
I may be exaggerating. Probably. But we girls are so hard on ourselves sometimes. Our response may at times resemble that of the beast, “Who could ever love me?”
What is beauty? Society says it means keeping up with the latest fashion trends. Buying overpriced beauty products. It looks at the exterior. Sometimes it almost seems as if beauty is measureable. And girls fall into this way of thinking. They begin comparing one person’s beauty with another’s. We begin to judge others around us and when we see through this lens, we ultimately fail to capture the picture of beauty that God intended when He created us.
We were made for beauty. But not Glamour magazine’s idea of beauty. Beauty is more than skin deep. The One who made us tells us that it’s not just about the body, the exterior. It’s about the heart.
And sometimes when we girls look inside ourselves, we can’t help but think..."Nothing beautiful in there either." This struggle with feelings of inadequacy makes sense. There is a lot lacking in us and we know it. This is the hole every girl tries to fill. And we ask God, “God, do you see me flawed and sinful and still call me beautiful? Do you see the loneliness? Do you see me struggle? Do you see the unmet desires of my heart? Do you see me trying to manipulate and control? Do you see me yearn for the things I can’t have? Do you see me cry for time that is lost and the life I will not know? God, do you see me in all this mess and still think I’m beautiful? (Do You Think I’m Beautiful – Angela Thomas)”
The deeper beauty that a girl longs for is about complete acceptance. A girl wants to be known, desired, and pursued.
“When God looks into the eyes of a woman, He sees all the beauty He created there. He sees every potential and every gift. He sees what can be and redeems what has been. He loves the curly hair that you wish were straight. He is taken with your smile and the shape of your nose. He’s crazy about big feet and knobby knees and every curve that is particular to you. He is the One who loves the inside and the outside of you. You were all His idea, and you are physically and emotionally beautiful to Him. (Angela Thomas)”
The more I recognize my inadequacies, the more I must acknowledge His greatness. But I also have to remember that His plan for me is beautiful. He has made me beautiful. He is making me beautiful. He is the source of every good thing. And He tells me I am good. Why? Because I’m His.
God had something beautiful in mind when He made me a woman. The devil is trying to use it for my destruction. He twists everything. He’s trying to rob me of my identity, my dignity as a person created in the image and likeness of God. Help, holy spirit!
As St. Rose of Lima once said, "Only beauty of the soul is worthwhile." May His Spirit enter our hearts and thus form us in the beauty God intended for us. All other pursuit of beauty leaves us tired, hurt, and deeply unsatisfied.